We knew when we went down that Wednesday was going to be a long and emotional day.
It stared by heading to Amy's house, where my mom and Kendall had stayed the night before, so that we could drive up to National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona together. This is where both my grandmother (who passed away 2 years ago) and grandfather (who just passed away on February 29, 2012) are buried.
I am so grateful for the service they both gave to this country by serving in the military. I am also very grateful that because of this they were able to be buried side by side in a National Memorial Cemetery.
We went Wednesday because that was when they were doing a service to honor my grandfather (and others who had died recently) for his military service. After the service we went to my grandparent's grave and my great Uncle dedicated his grave. He said that grandpa had to go because grandma was getting in too much trouble up in heaven and grandpa had to go so he could keep her in line.
My great uncle also shared that when he was there dedicating my grandma's grave, there was a family of quail walking around right by her grave. It was a mama and some babies.He said it was so very appropriate because she loved being a mother, the outdoors and she loved wildlife.
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| Tired Mark snuggling with daddy. |


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| Grandma holding Luke waiting. |
At the service I was able to hold it together until they played Taps. At that point, it was so hard. I think it was for everyone there. When they presented my mom with the flag that they used for the ceremony, I had tears streaming down my face also.
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Taylor kept the mood somewhat light by taking photos and telling jokes.
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After the ceremony we all headed over to visit their graves. This was the first time since my grandma had passed away, two years ago, that I had been. It was hard to go. I am glad we did though.
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| Kendall and I holding the flag presented to my mom. |
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| Mom holding the flag she was presented with. |
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| Sarah and Taylor Ailine by Sarah Ailine's grave. |
After the services and visiting we headed down to Grandma and Grandpa's house. It was so hard to go there and see so many things gone and change. So many things missing but most of all Grandma and especially Grandpa (who was there last time I was) not their anymore.
It was hard to take things to bring home knowing that they had no place at that house anymore. It's getting closer and closer to empty now. Our lives have been forever changed by knowing and loving and being loved by these wonderful people. They are also forever changed now that they are gone. We miss you Grandma and Grandpa! We know you are happy and doing the work of our Heavenly Father now on the other side of the veil now.